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Folks,
Please forgive me if this question is not appropriate by any means.
Here is my challenge... I am an individual planning to buy life insurance for my personal family protection. I have been doing lots of research. I do not need much guidance and know pretty much what I need. I am looking for a specific policy from Guardian which is kind of close to my needs.
I am planning to buy a large policy but I hate losing first 2 years on investment in agent commission and other fees. Its sadly the ugly side of whole life insurance as consumer loses in first 5 years.
Is it ok for me to ask the agent to split his commission with me in the first year to soften the burden? This large fee/loss has kept me on the side lines for last couple of years and its just too hard to bite the bullet and take a substantial loss.
Please advice how to proceed. I dont want to offend someone and dont know if it is something that will be acceptable to the agent.
thanks
What makes you feel that you are entitled to my compensation?
Did you ask your real estate agent to refund 50% of his commission back to you when you sold your house?
Are you going to share your commission with the people who spent time with you directly, wrote the articles, or created the youtube videos on how (you think) life insurance works?
Asking someone for money that you are not entitled to... IS offensive.
Let me share something else with you: every single penny you put into a life insurance policy is NOT "your money" for as long as you want it to secure the death benefit. If you withdraw the money, it lowers the death benefit. If you borrow against the policy reserve, you lower your net death benefit.
Since it's not "your money" (until you want/need it)... why not just count the whole thing as a "loss" and just do it for the right reasons?