Boy the First Year in This Business is a Butt Kicker!!

Labman

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Dadgum, even though I was forewarned how hard this business can be, I really never had a clue.

First comes learning all you can about the products you handle which takes a lot more time than I ever imagined.

Second comes learning how to sell. Your posture, your voice inflection, body language, handling objections and on and on and on.

Third is prospecting and what a doozie that is. Cold calling how to's. Who to prospect to so you don't waste your time. Finding a niche. And on and on and on.

Fourth is finding that inner confidence that only comes with time and learning a lot about all the above. It's ironic how confidence is so vital to success. But given that confidence comes from the first three areas, maybe it's not so ironic.

My confidence has just started to pick up in the 7th month of being in the business and has made a drastic difference in how I conduct business and how prospects(POTENTIAL BUYERS) react to me.

It's been a long hard road and will continue to be. But....hopefully the rewards will soon come in a stream instead of a trickle. I'm feeling a lot more confident that I can make a go of this business despite the ass kicking I've taken. Had it not been for the butt whippings, and all the great people who have helped me tremedously on here, I would not have learned so much.

What an interesting business!!! Thanks to all you!!
 
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Who did you start your career with? A Farmers/Allstate kinda company. Or was it a just a independent broker? Congrats on your first year. Glad to here it is all coming together for you.
 
I initally started out with Colonial Life on voluntary benefits. Then, thank the Lord, I found a veteran of 30 years who handles group health, indie and vol. benefits as well. He offered to mentor me, even though he is busy as all get out, which was very kind of him to do.

Were it not for him, and the folks on here, I seriously doubt I would have lasted this long.
 
It's called "paying your dues".

You have done an excellent job of outlining everything that you need to be concerned about to begin down the path to success. I admire your perseverance.

You will be successful at this.

If there is anything I can do to help please don't hesitate to call.
 
Thank you so much Frank, it is because of the generosity of people such as yourself on this forum, that I have made it this far. Without you guys I would be toast!
 
I still remember my boss telling me the 3 important things that I need to learn about this business.

1. See the People!
2. See the People!
3. See the People!

It took me about 2 years, before I felt that this was where I belong.

I screwed up a lot when I first got started. I didn't want to listen to the people that had been doing it for 30 years. Took me forever to learn, to find someone else that is successful and copy what they are doing.

I still have my 1st prospecting book on the wall.
 
Nope that was the 1st prospecting ever given to me was the phone book.

I had one that I had to try and put names in also. That was my 1st prospecting book that I had to put names in.

The phonebook was the 1st one ever given to me. 1 out of 50 people that I got on the phone would give me an appointment to come see them.

I took out the newspaper and got about 12 names of great prospects from it.

My wife thinks I'm stupid for not trashing some of the stuff I saved from my 1st year.
 
I initally started out with Colonial Life on voluntary benefits. Then, thank the Lord, I found a veteran of 30 years who handles group health, indie and vol. benefits as well. He offered to mentor me, even though he is busy as all get out, which was very kind of him to do.

Were it not for him, and the folks on here, I seriously doubt I would have lasted this long.

A mentor can be the difference between success and failure. It speeds up the learning care and keeps one from starving while they are learning.
 
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