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my good friend died after terminal cancer. had 401k & a lot of term totaling $1.4M. Even though it all went to a trust to provide for his wife income annually & then to his 2 kids, she emptied it in about 7 years & it was gone by the time the kids were 16 & 18. most was not just blowing money on trips & house addition, but also by making horrible tax moves by taking money out of IRA/401k & then owing 30-40% at tax time from tax/penalties, which then required more of the funds to be taken out to pay the tax man. then that triggered another 20-40%Yup I have seen it.
Buy a bigger house and car they could not have afforded when daddy was alive. Suddenly rolling large. Then a few years later an equity loan ........
I had always had the wrong impression that a trust limiting a person to annual 5% of the funds really would do that. But, if the spouse is the trustee, they get to pull out funds whenever they want & say it is used for the kids benefit.
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