Sometimes I wonder if y'all think all seniors are in denial and complete ignorance of death.
By all means, paint a picture, but ask questions and paint a picture about what concerns them, not something you think is important.
I agree, not all of them are in denial and many of them are plumb worried about the consequences of the event already. We call those 'lay-downs' for the most part... they are ready to buy, they just needed a FE agent to come by and write it up. Frankly there are plenty of those out there, even a caveman could do it on lots of these appts.
I was just illustrating what I say when there is resistence, or when they want to think it over, just shopping, etc. If you don't have to sell, then don't sell. All too many salesman of every walk of like don't know when to take yes (or some sign of it) for an answer. When they give you buying signals, just shut and up and get to writing on the paperwork... laced with necessary questions... "What is your birthdate Mrs Jones?"... "what is your height & weight?" 280lbs. "You didn't look a pound over 272 Mrs Jones..."