My fellow readers, I figured it out.
The biggest problem in dealing with call reluctance is this:
Totally incorrect training! Why? Because, for years, no, Decades, Sales people have been trained to "Overcome Objections", as if certain "magical phrases or words, would convince someone against their will.
All that does is create ADVERSITY. You can't face Adversity over and over and over and not become Adverse to it yourself.
So, I figured it out. Yes, we need to keep on contacting folks if we want to have sales success. BUT, it dawned on me while playing Solitaire---If the cards I've been dealt don't give me a shot at winning, I need to re-deal. I don't beat myself up trying to change a 9 into an Ace. I accept what I'm dealt, and if I can't do anything with it, I start again. I don't sulk, get defensive, feel defeated or anything else. I don't take it personally, because it isn't personal.
Just deal yourself another hand( i.e. hang up and dial again). It's nothing more difficult than that.
The biggest problem in dealing with call reluctance is this:
Totally incorrect training! Why? Because, for years, no, Decades, Sales people have been trained to "Overcome Objections", as if certain "magical phrases or words, would convince someone against their will.
All that does is create ADVERSITY. You can't face Adversity over and over and over and not become Adverse to it yourself.
So, I figured it out. Yes, we need to keep on contacting folks if we want to have sales success. BUT, it dawned on me while playing Solitaire---If the cards I've been dealt don't give me a shot at winning, I need to re-deal. I don't beat myself up trying to change a 9 into an Ace. I accept what I'm dealt, and if I can't do anything with it, I start again. I don't sulk, get defensive, feel defeated or anything else. I don't take it personally, because it isn't personal.
Just deal yourself another hand( i.e. hang up and dial again). It's nothing more difficult than that.