I would recommend the Honda Pilot or CR-V. You can't go wrong with Honda
I love Hondas they are great cars. My choice and ratings as far as durability and dependability in car brands outside of any luxury cars are:
1.Honda
2.Subaru
3.Toyota
4.Nissan
5.Ford/Mazda
6.GM
7.Chrsyler
Besides daubling in insurance I own a shop that works on 300 cars a month. Everyone there would agree on the top three although they might argue about the order.