AARP/UHC Community Rating (CR) is a farce

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I just got done explaining for what must be the 500th time that despite what they have been told or read, AARP/UHC is only truly CR in a few states. Male rates are higher than female rates, and your rate goes up every birthday (via discount erosion) in addition to the annual rate change.
This is nowhere close to the definition of CR. Does anyone know how they keep getting away with being labeled this way?
I guess I am venting more than anything but does anyone else share this frustration or have any insight (other than the DOI just does not care)?