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The insurance is not college related and its for my kids, in the event if something happens to them and to grow. I was just amazed at the fees and 8 to 10 years just to break even. We are talking about a grand total of 2,400 per year for both of them when my budget is getting tight.
And here, my friends, is why cash value policies so frequently fail: they are sold to (and bought by) people who don't have the margin or patience to sustain a policy until its virtues can be experienced.
It sounds like 1) you bit off more than you can chew, and 2) your cousin failed to drill into you how long and miserable it would be for you to own the policy before you had more value than you'd paid into it.
You probably shouldn't have bought this. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't keep it.
Whatever you do, if you keep the policy, commit and don't torture yourself (and your cousin) second-guessing yourself (and him) for the next 5 years. Accept that it's a long-haul deal. Or punt.
Also, on behalf of your cousin, I'll go ahead and tell you that, unless you hate your cousin, you should try to keep the policy through the first full year. Otherwise, he'll get "charged back" the commission (or a portion of it), which is no fun at all.
Good luck.