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Why does this feel like deja vu? I swear I've seen the exact same posts from BNTRS and the same people ignoring his points.
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I seem to remember Rex from 7 or 8 months ago. I believe it was a 457 or 412i plan and maybe DI discussion. Beyond a general post or two, I won't engage in a long and winding series of posts with "civilians", regardless of registered rep status. Agents that want to go deep with these "consumers" certainly have a right to do so, but if these people are not potential clients, I believe there is an exposure for us that has no upside and only downside.Why does this feel like deja vu? I swear I've seen the exact same posts from BNTRS and the same people ignoring his points.
There's a point being discussed here that you continuously ignore, and it's hugely important. We're talking about interest rate arbitrage, which gives WL a significant upper hand.
"dont u get mad at clients who just buy a UL policy and dont read the statements as they get closer to going bust? i bet you do but again i could be wrong."
Up until GuL came about, I sold one UL policy to a banker in 20 years, and chewed his ass the entire time about paying attention to it. Old UL for most people was a mistake because it allowed too much freedom and human nature gets in the way of disipline all the time. A Ul is a very hands on product. Gul doesn't really give that same 'freedom" so it may work out after all.
" i am not looking for affirmation but as u can see i no longer take just any sales pitch and believe me ive been pitched it 100s of times many times inappropriately."
Well, I guess you have seen my sales pitch isn't all that warm and fuzzy.
It just seems what ever pitch you're looking for has to match your pov now, otherwise it's at fault. So you have to forgive me as I'm not playing along all that well because I don't see the point.
"but as a for instance of change i could consider, i could put less into the 529s and buy a whole life on my wife or i could buy more PUAs. now i dont really plan to do that bc i dont really think that is the best thing to do for my primary goal of paying for college."
So Ok fine, go with it. For you, that's fine. Somebody else maybe not. All roads lead to the sea eventually. It seems you're looking for a one size fits all solution when really it's just your situation and you've made a choice. You may be handling just fine right now. At the end of the trip maybe you made an extra 2%, maybe you lost 2%. Woulda Coulda Shoulda...
In your case, I think nothing is going to reduce your family obligated rate of college tuition as your income as a doc is going to ber too high (provided you are an MD) outside of having really bright kids who gain scholarships.
So deciding to shift 25% away from A to B, isn't going to make a difference with C as your income, retirement plan, house and other things will simply crush any potential savings on tuition.
I would suggest you try to dry run a Fasfa (almost every school will require you to) to see what questions they ask. They use your income, your home, your retirement plan, any other assets or investements against you. They just don't count cash values. So it isn't really going to matter if you put more into A over B, because every other thing you own is going to crush it. Do you understand?
" for me whole life loans are really a decent idea in retirement once the returns are greater and u have plenty of cash in the policy such that it wont go bust on your loans."
And you can also surrender dividends without tax penalty as well.
" i dont feel they are a super plan for more moderate income folks to pay for college and hoping to sneak under the aide bar."
It's an answer that's going to be right for some and not others. State college will probably work well. A 60k tuition a year college, no, not really.
You're not going to find a "single" solution as there really isn't one. Try running fasfa or at least look at what they ask for as it may be that you're paddling really hard with a fork ???
I do apologize for my lack of professionalism, but you're not a client and this isn't an office. This is Sparta!