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I made that mistake before.
Now I don't mention the gift when I ask for referrals or reviews. I just send it with the thank you note.
I think it works well that way. People don't feel bribed, they just feel appreciated.
Worked so well I stopped doing it. Thank you for the reminder.
I used to keep thank you cards an gift cards in my desk drawer. I just stopped doing that for some reason.