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In General - which company has a better profile and does one treat their people better than the other? In other words, what's the word on the street??
You're looking for a definitive answer on a subjective question. I personally know agents that have done very well with both. Honestly, considering the amount of risk involved and what very little we know about based off of what you've posted, I think your husband should have his head examined if he goes with either of them. As others have said, the amount of stress in your personal life will drastically impact work performance and general well-being. Assuming you like your husband and value your marriage, either one of these is potentially going to create an amount of stress that plenty of other opportunities wouldn't force him (and you) to deal with.
Anecdotally, there aren't really major differences between the two. Rates go up and down, companies go in and out of being competitive, commissions and bonus schedules go up and down, it all ends up being a wash. A lot of it can be very regional too.
In short, he should probably go find another management job. You're so close to retirement and considering all of the above it's really the only reasonable choice.