Ok Champ. Here's the scoop. You started there looking to be a part of something. You knew you wanted that, but didn't think you had the means to do it by yourself. So you go on being secretary, computer tech, water boy, goffer, etc.
You're happy with that because you just know in the end it will all be worth it, because you will be a part of something bigger than you. You get jerked around and have to make adjustments for your salary/commissions...but that's ok, you understand, because once again...one day, you'll be an integral part of something and reap the rewards of your efforts. After all, how can he not see the things you are doing for him. As a matter of fact, he probably feeds you a few kudos now and then and lets you know how lost he would be without your help. Anything sound familiar?
But as you go along, there's always something nagging in your gut, wondering why things aren't changing like you think they should....just a little maybe. Then whamo....he hires other agents, making more than you to start off and reality hits.
The problem with reality hitting though, you don't want to see what the reality really is. You don't want to see that you are being used and that you'll never be that integral part that you have dreamed of, even promised in so many words. How could that be reality? After all, you've invested so much time and been paid so little money comparitively. If you recognized the reality, you would have to also recognize that it all been for naught!
But it hasn't been for naught. Look at what you've learned. Look at what you could do on your own now. Sure, you would still like to be a part of the company, part owner even, but you're not going to be, that's the sad truth.
Look to your gut brother, I've been there and done that. When is it time to pick up, accept your losses and your gains and move on.
I was there...then one day, out of the blue, I got thrown to the wolves...all over nothing that I had done or had any control over.
As low and beaten as I felt, what I didn't see at the time was the future in front of me, all I seen was all the things I had done, trying to be a part of something I now realize was never going to be.
Once I got mad, then I stepped outside of the box, I looked around and found a direction to head. I haven't looked back and so glad I got thrown to the wolves! I became the wolf, the hunter and not the hunted. Where there is a will, there is a way and all things are perfect for their time and space. Accept your future, and move on.
Was this too long guys?
You're happy with that because you just know in the end it will all be worth it, because you will be a part of something bigger than you. You get jerked around and have to make adjustments for your salary/commissions...but that's ok, you understand, because once again...one day, you'll be an integral part of something and reap the rewards of your efforts. After all, how can he not see the things you are doing for him. As a matter of fact, he probably feeds you a few kudos now and then and lets you know how lost he would be without your help. Anything sound familiar?
But as you go along, there's always something nagging in your gut, wondering why things aren't changing like you think they should....just a little maybe. Then whamo....he hires other agents, making more than you to start off and reality hits.
The problem with reality hitting though, you don't want to see what the reality really is. You don't want to see that you are being used and that you'll never be that integral part that you have dreamed of, even promised in so many words. How could that be reality? After all, you've invested so much time and been paid so little money comparitively. If you recognized the reality, you would have to also recognize that it all been for naught!
But it hasn't been for naught. Look at what you've learned. Look at what you could do on your own now. Sure, you would still like to be a part of the company, part owner even, but you're not going to be, that's the sad truth.
Look to your gut brother, I've been there and done that. When is it time to pick up, accept your losses and your gains and move on.
I was there...then one day, out of the blue, I got thrown to the wolves...all over nothing that I had done or had any control over.
As low and beaten as I felt, what I didn't see at the time was the future in front of me, all I seen was all the things I had done, trying to be a part of something I now realize was never going to be.
Once I got mad, then I stepped outside of the box, I looked around and found a direction to head. I haven't looked back and so glad I got thrown to the wolves! I became the wolf, the hunter and not the hunted. Where there is a will, there is a way and all things are perfect for their time and space. Accept your future, and move on.
Was this too long guys?
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