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Maybe I shouldn't have used doom and gloom since you are harping on that. I just envision like a finger being pointed at me as I face a dire situation and someone saying "you got 3 choices" and it's one of those thing where to me you might as follow up with "...and none of them are good".
My presentation just encompasses FE and it's meant to make that option sound so good I don't need to say "OR you could do these 2 other inferior things"
My reasons why:
1. To the "Do nothing" option. I wouldn't say that. To me you have given them a cheap way out. You are opening the door for that type that just LOVES to say "I don't care, they can just bury me in the back yard!". You are also speaking with the type of person that is likely a "do nothing" type....that's why they haven't taken care of this. By speaking the words "You could do nothing" you might actually be relating to them so well they think, yeah, doing nothing sounds pretty good because that's who I am.
2. Pre Paid funeral. You're just opening up the possibility of them wondering what that's all about. Is it cheaper? Is it actually a good option and this salesmen is just trying to deter me from it? I'm going to look into that when he leaves and I'm not buying anything until I do.
But if other people like the 3 option thing, go for it. I just don't like the message it sends or the possible way it could be taken. You *need* to do at least one of these 3 things. My standard American attitude will be I don't need to do anything so get out of my house.
But you be consultative with me, educate me a little, and make your FE plan sound like a great thing to own and to be proud of owning, and I'll want it. And in buying what I want I have subsequently bought what I need.
My presentation just encompasses FE and it's meant to make that option sound so good I don't need to say "OR you could do these 2 other inferior things"
My reasons why:
1. To the "Do nothing" option. I wouldn't say that. To me you have given them a cheap way out. You are opening the door for that type that just LOVES to say "I don't care, they can just bury me in the back yard!". You are also speaking with the type of person that is likely a "do nothing" type....that's why they haven't taken care of this. By speaking the words "You could do nothing" you might actually be relating to them so well they think, yeah, doing nothing sounds pretty good because that's who I am.
2. Pre Paid funeral. You're just opening up the possibility of them wondering what that's all about. Is it cheaper? Is it actually a good option and this salesmen is just trying to deter me from it? I'm going to look into that when he leaves and I'm not buying anything until I do.
But if other people like the 3 option thing, go for it. I just don't like the message it sends or the possible way it could be taken. You *need* to do at least one of these 3 things. My standard American attitude will be I don't need to do anything so get out of my house.
But you be consultative with me, educate me a little, and make your FE plan sound like a great thing to own and to be proud of owning, and I'll want it. And in buying what I want I have subsequently bought what I need.