I wouldn't ask what they rely upon but rather "DO they consciously rely upon anything for the defense of their lives?"
Do you wake up in the morning and get in your car and say to yourself "I need to be careful driving to work because WHAT IF a drunk driver is on the road"? You probably don' because like many people that's not a concern that crosses your mind in the morning as it is more a case of "what If or what are the odds?"
Believe it or not there are many and I would argue more people that live in this country white, black, young, old, rural house, city house, blue state, red state, that do not own a fire arm. They don' live their lives with that concern of defense. Even if they live somewhere where crime is on the news everynight.
Crime is random in the sense that it can happen to anyone at anytime but the reality is also that as random as crime is, crime is also very isolated in its elements. You are more likely to be mugged at 2 a.m. than 2 p.m. You are more likely to get shot at if you participate in gang activity or drug activity in your neighborhood than you are if you are a working person minding their business. Those elements make something random like crimes simultaneously isolated. So for many people playing it smart, being alert, exercising common sense, and just living a decent life doesn't make them concerned to the point where they feel they need to “personally” defend themselves from the “what if.”
As sad as school shootings are, we have learned that they are very random i.e. location, from Ohio to Connecticut to Florida, yet they are also very isolated in there elements - kids were bullied or had mental issues that required doctors or police involvement. I find banning all guns to be as ludicrous as arming a teacher in every school. Both are extreme reactions or responses. I believe raising the age limit and banning AR 15’s are more moderate responses.
Would you also ban the Ruger Mini 14?
As you can see, one looks like a regular old hunting rifle (as it is) and the other looks like something the military would use. In reality, they fire the same ammunition and both require the trigger to be pulled each time it is fired.
I'm seriously not trying to stoke the flames here. I'm genuinely asking someone who is for banning the AR-15 their thoughts on weapons that fire the same ammunition at the same rate. Also keep in mind, most hand guns are semi-automatic and will fire as quickly as you can pull the trigger (same as the AR-15 or the Mini 14), do we ban those as well? According to 2016 FBI statistics, 7,105 people were murdered with a hand gun and 374 were killed with a "rifle" (the AR-15 would fall in that category). The Columbine shooters used two sawed-off shotguns, a 9 mm and a rifle (not an AR-15). Counting the two shooters, 15 people were killed. Not much different than the numbers at the most recent shooting.
My point is, the AR-15 isn't the problem. Ultimately, the mass shootings are a cultural issue. There are people who just don't value life anymore. We live in a culture where we don't have absolutes. No right and wrong. I mean hell, we've got people who are defending the FBI and Sheriff's department over their failures. One would think with all the warning signs that most of the country could agree that both departments failed in this area. We have people who get offended if you "assume" their gender. We don't name winners and losers in little league sports. And God forbid a person in authority like a teacher point out little Johnny's abhorrent behavior. If little Johnny is failing, it's obviously the teacher's fault. It can't be that Johnny doesn't apply himself and that his parents don't put requirements on him.
Anyway, I really would love to hear your thoughts on if we also ban a gun like the Mini 14 along with the AR-15. Or all weapons that fire that same caliber?
As for not wanting people in your community to carry a weapon, while I don't personally carry one (although I do have a concealed carry permit), I know several people who do and you'd never know it. The holster goes inside their waist band area and the gun is hidden away. One of my closest friends is a retired police officer who now works for the Department of Homeland Defense and he loathes when someone open carries (meaning they have the holster and gun on their hip for all the world to see).