I can't help but chuckle when I read the comments of the "experts" in this thread.
Dang, some tough love there. Fair enough, though. This is a tough industry, and if you don't walk into it with your eyes wide open you'll end up with a wallet full of maxed-out credit cards and an ulcer.
There are no short cuts here. There are definitely plenty of marketing programs and strategies, many of them very good - how to network, how to form and nuture strategic partnerships, etc. - but unless you stumble into a dream lead system, you're still going to have to do the dirty work too: talking to friends and family, cold calling, cold walking. At least 50 total hours of work per week for at least the first two years, and much of it getting your hands dirty.
And if you can tell me what happened on Jerry Springer today, you probably won't be in this business for long.
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