I may be the only one to say this and I apologize for being so brash but your post are all about what's best you. Was it best for you when they handed you $90,000? I bet you paid some bills which was best for you at that time. You owe somebody $90,000.00. Figure out a way to pay them back. Sure, it will follow you around but you signed the contracts. Sell you house and cars. If you have a Mercedes but a Cavalier. Move into a trailer park. Work 3 jobs. Just my opinion!!
Obviously you aren't aware how the system works. When you have agents under you and they have chargebacks, the FMO is ultimately responsible for paying back that money.
Let's just say for example you had 5 agents under you and you have a 120% contract and you give your agents 100%. We'll say they each wrote $20,000. You would make $4,000 (20% x $20k) from each agent. And each agent was advanced $20,000. Now let's say those agents each had some chargebacks totaling $10,000 each. That leaves a balance owed of $50,000 for the agents. If they don't pay it, then you, as their upline owe the money. I believe he said somewhere that $10,000 of the $90,000 was from his own production. That means $80,000 was because of chargebacks to agents under him.
Point being, he didn't receive the full $90,000 and go blow it. He wasn't, as you say, "handed the $90,000".