Welcome to the Forum, Edward. Hope to correspond with you more in the future. When your grandmother passed, I assume there was quite a bit of cash value, considering she paid more into the policy than the beneficiary received. Keep in mind that as the cash value increase, although it seems like the premium is paying for the original death benefit. In reality, the premium is paying for the difference between the current cash value and death benefit. This means her cost is limited to the amount the insurance company has at risk. Oftentimes, we confuse Premium with Cost of Insurance (or amount at risk.) Therefore, the longer she paid, more and more of her premium dollars were being allocated towards the cash value. Did you consider that a possibility at the time, or not? Hope that makes you feel somewhat better about it.Being that my grandmother held a final expense policy until she died and paid more into the policy than she got in return. Your quote saddens me it is also true.