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theinsuranceman said:Ms. Jones, what are you going to do if that funeral home goes out of business?
Duh? Go to another one.
Preplan policies are good at any funeral home, never just one. You should know that Greg.
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iamnewtothis said:Alright sounds good, I haven't had any issues thus far. I think I will find out for sure on Wednesday haha. Yeah I had a pretty rough day yesterday out at appointments. The people didn't even know why they sent the card in. I asked the lady if i found her a plan she could qualify for, a plan that would fit her needs and budget, and a plan that SHE SEES THE VALUE TO, would you be willing to start this plan today... "No" lol... she had to talk to her kids, well i can see where youre coming from mrs x, but this is ultimately your decision, not to mention your children do not want to make decisions on your death, but on your life...so in the end we have to ask ourselves, are we alright with passing the burden of our final expenses off to our loved ones? "well we have enough money in the bank and i still have to talk to my daughter" , so let me ask you this, if you were getting brain surgery, would you ask your daughter how you should be operated on or would you take it to a brain surgeon? "well id ask my daughter first" okay maam, so do you make decisions on your every day life? "yes" so that means when you go grocery shopping, you dont call your daughter and ask her what you can buy, right? i dont know, i didnt throw it all at her at once but i said just about all i could...
OK, first that objection is probably smoke so you start by taking it away.
Mrs. smith if Debbie says that she definitely does want you to get a plan, is there ANY other reason you can think of that you would hesitate to start the plan I have showed you here today?
She is going to tell you her true objection now. I need to shop around more (needs more info), I can't afford it right now (help her figure out a way to pay), I never heard of the company, etc.
And sometimes these are all smoke because she doesn't want to tell you she doesn't like YOU. It happens to all of us.
But let's say that she is giving you the true objection:
Mrs. Smith I am always looking for ways to better serve my client families. And one thing I have learned is that it's GOOD for you to talk things over with your children when you are making important decisions that affect them as well as you. But I've also learned that the way you are going about it will put Debbie in a very uncomfortable position.
By asking her if you should buy this type of protection, you are really asking her if she would like you to inconvience yourself NOW so that you leave her money (I assume she will be your beneficiary) when you die so she is not burdened. Every responsible, caring child that loves their parent is going to react to that question with "No don't worry about it Mom. I will just handle everything when the time comes." She doesn't want to think about your mortality and she doesn't want you to think about it either. And she would feel greedy and selfish saying "Yes, you should handle this burden so you don't leave me with a bigger one."
What works better is this. Start the plan and then approach her with "I have taken care of this for you so you will not be left with a funeral expense." She will then review what you have already done and will be glad you did it. if she sees ANY reason that it's not a good thing to do, you have a no obligation 30-day free look anyway. You are protected but not obligated (I stole that last line from Travis Tubbs).
This is the way that will be MORE comfortable for your daughter and you don't even need to pay anything today. What is your date of birth...blah, blah, blah...
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iamnewtothis said:Well, I also went about it like this, I said you can go over to the Gerber chapel right up the street maam and design your own funeral and funeral director is all done, hes simply going to say well mrs x ive designed your funeral for you and what ive come up with is its to be 10000. Now mrs x would you like to just prepay that and write a check for that amount today? when he presents that question to you, what are you going to say?
she said "yes i would, heres the check"
what are you supposed to say to that lol
On this objection, you are trying to combat a single payment funeral preplan with a lifetime monthly payment FE. The people who single pay do NOT want payments. They like to live debt free.
You offer her your single pay plan. Mrs. Smith we offer a plan that you should qualify for that may be more attractive to you. if you pay at the funeral home and the total is $7,500, you will write a check for $7,500 and your funeral is paid but there is not any extra money.
I offer a single pay plan where you could write a check for $6,000 and you have a first day death benefit of $11,000. That leaves room for your funeral price to go up and STILL leaves extra money that will go to Debbie. The families I serve feel this makes much more sense and is a great value.
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