NYL is known for some of the best and most consistent training in the industry. However, it sounds like you are just at a crappy office.
My first week at NYL I spent 6 hours a day in career school. I was not allowed to speak to prospects until I completed career school.
The second week we trained in small groups for 3 hours a day and the rest of the day we practiced prospecting.
So after 2 weeks I had 45 hours worth of training. For the first 3 years you were also required to go to at least 1 training meeting per week.
I disagree with other comments that you will not like other career shops. What you have experienced so far is not the normal way a new agent is taught in a career office.
Id suggest that you speak to your local Mass, Guardian, North Western, Met, or Pru office. See what they are like and even ask to sit in on a training session.
Starting out indy working the type of market that NYL is geared towards is a very hard thing to do in my opinion. There is no way I would be where I am today without the training I received at NYL. It is true that you can pay for training systems. But that is not the same as learning from multiple people in that type of environment. Also, one of the best ways to learn in this industry is to do joint work with a more experienced agent. That is easy to do in a big office like that. Not so easy as an indy agent. Find a different office and give it a try.
What he said.
And adding, if you and the new managing partner are not a "fit" GET OUT NOW. Long term, that doesn't work. And there will be more than one point in the next 3 years where you will need someone in management on your side and he isn't going to be there for you.