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This is hard for me to share but I think it is important. I was going to a client appointment. I was in a "good" neighborhood. It was August, one o'clock in the afternoon on a gorgeous sunny day. I got out of my car, went to the trunk to grab my bag and was immediately mugged by three young men. I was sexually assaulted and beaten within an inch of my life. I was left for dead in the dirt on the side of the street a bloody mess. I had my skull and ribs fractured. I had many of my teeth broken out and my ear ripped off the side of my head from being hit so hard. (It was surgically repaired and is fine now.) Cars drove past, no one stopped. I was only saved because a man ran out waving his phone screaming he was calling the police and dialed 911. He risked his own life to save mine. So, in my opinion, it is not safe for women to go to appointments by themselves. Nope. Not one bit. The streets can be crazy. I pray what happened to me does not ever happen to anyone else regardless of gender. All this being said, I didn't quit the industry. I kept on but I do my meetings and apps, by phone, email, screen share, and many platforms that are available for true telephonic enrollments. It has been five years since I was attacked. In that time, I am privileged and honored to have some amazing agents who work under me. I built a dedicated and hardworking group of individuals who all actively write business. I opened a call center. And last year, I earned more money than I ever thought possible across all lines of business. In this industry, you have to have heart, self discipline, drive, a whole lot of moxie, genuiness and a true desire to help people, and for me, a strong faith in God. Do the right things, find the right people to work with who will support you on your journey. You can make excuses or you can get to work and make money. It is a phenomenal industry.
Reading this a phrase comes to mind.
"Fights like a Girl!"
Inspirational story.